“I’m at that stage in life where I keep myself out of unnecessary arguments.

Even if you tell 1+1=5, you’re absolutely correct. Enjoy.”  Author unknown

 

There’s so much potential for conflict right now.

Even though we’re in Canada, the recent Trump vs. Biden election continues to be a hot topic. Almost inseparable from the elections are regular hot-topics like religion, abortion and Covid. As measures increase to slow down the influx of Covid, we’re seeing our spectrum of freedoms being compromised, leading to more dissent. There seem to be vigilante sentries everywhere: on hiking trails, in malls, in the media. One extreme complains that we’re recklessly compromising public safety, while the other side complains that we’re being too paranoid and passive about our rights being eroded by a pseudo-communist regime.

I’ve had some interesting conversations with some of you about these hot topics. We don’t always share the same opinions, but at least we remain respectful and curious enough to hear each other’s points of view.

This isn’t the case with everyone. And in those situations, when I sense a wall of rigid ignorance being mounted before an honest conversation takes off, I try to think of today’s quote. I’d rather stay out of the argument, perhaps gently encourage some fact checking, and deftly redirect the conversation to more neutral territory.

One of my dearest friends recently said that she’s “going to pray for these things more than talk about them.” I think that’s a great option. We don’t need to prove to our egos that we’re “right.” What do we win, anyway, if we “win” a fight with a friend or loved one: Resistance, conflict, humiliation on one or both sides? Doesn’t sound like victory to me.

Here’s hoping we have a week of peace, laughter and gratitude amidst the heaviness out there. There is much to smile and laugh about. Let’s attract it!

 

Purely Practical Tip

For peace of mind, check out your own facts on reputable fact checking sites. I found this list helpful.

 

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How are you staying peaceful and sane these days? What brings you laughter and joy amidst all the Covid restrictions?

2 replies
  1. lisa
    lisa says:

    The conflict in the world continues… sad – but true – yet WE CAN stop conflict in our inner circles! We can choose harmony, common ground and peace over being right. YES! There is good and evil I’m sure, but God is in control of it all, and in the end Good wins. I rest in that truth and believe that joyful gratitude in my inner circles reveals God’s goodness over all injustice! Great post!

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    • AnitaLove
      AnitaLove says:

      Thank you Lisa! Your comment makes me think of a quote by Mother Teresa: “Spread love everywhere you go: first of all in your own house. Give love to your children, to your wife or husband, to a next door neighbour… Let no one ever come to you without leaving better and happier. Be the living expression of God’s kindness: kindness in your face, kindness in your eyes, kindness in your smile, kindness in your warm greeting.”

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